Spiral Into Love by Philippa Waller
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Overview: Spiral into Love offers a unique approach to finding, building and sustaining loving relationships. Being in a relationship can be challenging at times, we all know that, but whether you are looking for new love – or want to keep your current love alive and vibrant, you probably don’t have time for a ten-year self-development or partner-awareness programme. What’s needed is an immediate understanding of the dynamics of our relationships and some practical tools and tips we can put into practice straight away.
My personal and professional experience has led me to understand that most marriages and partnerships falter because of an increasing or sudden mismatch of personal values, rather than the oft-cited and clichéd gender differences. Through extensive research and work in the field of communication skills I have identified how five key value sets drive and motivate our emotions, our thinking and our behavior in relationships. My approach draws on several theories of the bio-psycho-social development of human values, including Spiral Dynamics Integral and Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs.
In relationships we will argue fiercely over what we care about and we will fight when our boundaries are crossed. By understanding our own and our partner’s values, we can start building a loving, supportive and exciting relationship – for life.
Genre: Health, Fitness & Dieting > Relationships > Marriage
This book contains an easy to use values diagnostic – the Spiral Profiler – that will help you identify which of the five main value systems are most dominant for you. After that, you will explore how each of the five value systems responds to each other when they are in a loving relationship and how each combination creates its own unique dynamic. We then take a look at the six areas of any relationship and how your values and the values of your partner will impact on how you function as a couple.
These areas are:
1) Dating and early romance
2) Long-term and marriage
3) Kids and family
4) Friends and social life
5) Money
6) Sex
Once we’ve looked at the dynamics of the various value set combinations, we then look at how we can begin to understand and manage our relationships from a whole new perspective – the Rainbow Perspective.
The truth is, while we may have a dominant set of values, different people will surface different value systems within us. We have, if you like, a rainbow of values.
By taking what I call the Rainbow Perspective, we can see and acknowledge the full range of values that both our partners and we hold and express – while not allowing ourselves to be hijacked by any single one of them. Well, not for too long at least!
Taking the Rainbow Perspective really puts you in the driver’s seat and enables you to author your own, lasting happiness.
Finally we look at the importance of communication within a relationship and how to effectively talk to your partner, depending on their values. The key to a vibrant, long-lasting connection is learning how to communicate with our other half at the deepest level.
So, if you’re looking to find new love, rekindle old love, or check whether your latest flame is the one for you, then Spiral Into Love could well become your relationship bible.
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